WOW | Men Speak

Is it okay to be friends with your ex?


Drummer, 1974 AD /Founder & Director at House of Music

I think it’s totally okay to be friends with your ex. But it is different for different people. I am still friends with most of my exes. I also think that any friendship should naturally evolve and should not be forced. I have become better friends with some and share just a normal relationship with some. I believe in building bridges rather than walls. Life is too short and unpredictable to hold grudges and live with bad and sour feelings about your past. Also, I think it is important to not have expectations and give space to each other when necessary if you want to remain friends with your ex.