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Tips for Unleashing the Vixen Within

When it comes to seduction, it isn’t always easy to get in the mood and conjure forth your inner sexual power. Furthermore, if you are inhibited or insecure, doubts and fears can keep you from embracing your sexuality and discovering your inner vixen. Yet every woman has an inner vixen deep inside her, an inner vixen that is longing to strap on a come-hither pair of stilettos and blow her partner’s mind with her bold sexuality. It’s time to get in touch with that sexy, intelligent, magnetic woman within. Here’s how:


Build Your Self-Esteem

At what time in your life did you feel the sexiest? Was it on vacation when you were in a bikini on the beach? Was it when you were flushed with excitement and adrenaline after finishing a 5K? Think about what made that moment so powerful and why you were so charged with confidence, then find ways to get back in touch with that sexy, confident woman, whether that means hitting the gym or getting a makeover.

Take Your Time

Keeping a hectic pace doesn’t just fry your nerves, it disconnects you from the present moment and dulls your senses to the world around you. Get back in your body by slowing down and embracing the sensuality of being in your skin. Take a hot bath and rub creamy oil on your skin, apply a spicy red pout to your lips, or take the time to slip on a sexy pair of lace boyshorts in the morning. These little things can restore femininity to even the most hectic day, and it can help you stop and smell the roses…or the bath oils!

Do Something Daring

Routine isn’t sexy. Neither is predictability. Get out of your comfort zone by doing something completely spontaneous. Surprise your partner by showing up to his office at lunchtime for a little impromptu afternoon delight, or go to the salon for a daring new style that no one could predict you’d wear.

Dump the Granny Panties

If you are like most women, you probably have a drawer full of granny panties and stretched-out bras. You know that when you wear those underthings, you feel completely unattractive, yet you keep them around. But why? Life is too short to walk around in boring, ill-fitting underwear! Dump the old stuff and hit up a bra-and-panty sale at your favorite store. Pick attractive (but comfortable) styles like boyshorts or bikini cuts, and get sized for sleek, well-fitting bras to go with them!

Get a Brazilian

Nothing says sexy like soft, smooth skin after a shave, and a Brazilian can help you get the look without ingrown hairs and razor bumps. Your partner won’t know what to do with himself!

Do Your Kegels

Kegels can improve genital tone and sexual response, all of which can make orgasms more intense for you and your partner. Isolate the muscles that you use to stop and start urine flow, and then clench and release those muscles whenever you are stuck in traffic or in a boring meeting.

Be Bossy…in the Bedroom

No one likes to be bossed around outside the bedroom, but in the bedroom it can be sexy and erotic to take charge. Tell your partner how you want to be touched, and let him know that his touch and attention are the keys to your sexual pleasure.