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What Your Libido Says About Your Health

While a change in your interest and desire for sex may signal a medical problem or side effect, it’s not considered a red flag. If you consider your libido levels too low, or too high, treatments are available.

How do you define or describe your sex drive?

Also known as libido, sex drive is a nonclinical term that means enthusiasm or interest in sexual activity, either with a partner or by yourself. The presence of it or lack thereof can indicate the state of your mental and physical functioning.

To get a sense of the factors involved, as well as an idea of where you may fall on the continuum, check out the Decreased Sexual Desire Screener. Keep in mind that sexual desire ebbs and flows naturally. What is going on today may not be going on tomorrow.

Factors That Can Contribute to Sexual Desire, or the Lack of Sexual Desire

What controls the sex drive is actually a very complex intertwining of biological, psychological, and social-cultural influences. All of that comes together to create the sex drive. Some of it is not well understood, but we do know that certain ducks have to be in a row. Libido levels can be affected by:

• Abuse of alcohol and drugs
• Anxiety, stress, and depression Disease
• Fatigue level
• History of sexual abuse
• Life circumstances
• Medication
• Menopause
• Quality and novelty of relationship
• Religious mandates
• Sensory stimuli

What Is Normal Sex Drive? And Is There a ‘Normal’ Level?

There are diagnostic conditions of hypoactive (low) libido and hyperactive (high) libido. But in general, libido levels (high or low) are only a problem if they are a problem for you or your partner. If a couple agrees on once or twice a month or once or twice a week, and that works for them, that’s fine. Even if there is a discrepancy where interests are different, it’s not necessarily pathological. You should only be concerned if there has been a sudden change from your own normal.

What to Do When Your Mojo Goes Missing: Treating Low Sex Drive

•Go to your primary care doctor for a medical workup. Many diseases, including diabetes, thyroid problems, cancer, and cardiac problems, as well as disease treatments, such as radiation for cancer, can lead to low desire. Depending on what is found, your doctor may refer you to a specialist.

• To rule out drug side effects, discuss with your physician any medication, supplements, or herbs you’re currently taking. Some can have a depressing effect on sex drive; but perhaps your doctor can find an alternative. For example, selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors and antidepressants have been shown to reduce libido. Other drugs that can put a cramp in your sexual style arebeta-blockers and antihistamines, and for women only, birth control pills.

• Ask about libido-enhancing medication. Addyi(flibanserin) is the first FDA-approved product that works on premenopausal women. It won’t give you a sex drive of a 15-year-old boy, but it will make you more receptive. Men with erectile dysfunction may benefit from Viagra(sildenafil citrate).

Hormone Therapies That May Help You Find Your Sex Drive

Testosterone Replacement Therapy

When the levels of the steroid hormone testosterone go down in either gender, so can libido. It’s a normal part of the aging process, but decline in testosterone can be related to surgical menopause and removal of the ovaries, as well as other medical conditions. You doctor can determine through a blood test if this has happened to you. Unlike menopause, where the clinical consequences of estrogen deficiency is known, the clinical consequences of testosterone level decline is not well established.

Treatment options may include:

For Men

A topical testosterone gel or cream (AndroGel, Testim) may be used, or a testosterone transdermal system patch (Androderm) can be applied once a day to mimic the daily secretion of testosterone. Another option is an injection of testosterone cypionate, which patients can learn to give themselves at home. The newest product available is a testosterone pellet, Testopel, that’s placed by a physician underneath the skin of the buttock under local anesthesia. It offers a time-released dosage of testosterone over three to six months. Oral forms of testosterone aren’t yet available but some are under development.

For Women

The FDA hasn’t approved testosterone supplements as a treatment for women with low libido, but there is substantial research supporting its efficacy in women. Clinicians sometimes prescribe the gel or patch to women as an off-label use. As in men, the adverse effects of testosterone therapy can be minimised with proper dosing and following blood levels.

Relationship Problems: Causes and Solutions

Many times, the problem is simply that the couple is bored. There is no novelty, which is the kiss of death to human sexuality. Other problems include lack of communication, trust, and intimacy, pent up resentment, and body insecurity.

Most of these problems can be dealt with through honest face-to-face conversation when you’re vertical — not horizontal. Why? Because when you’re horizontal you often have heat of the moment involved. These conversations may include comments like “This is what I’d like to try, this is how I feel,” or be part of counseling with a trained sex therapist, in which you will explore emotional issues that may contribute to sexual dysfunction through cognitive behavioural therapy or mindfulness therapy.

Lifestyle and General Health Factors Behind Sex Drive

These are called modifiable risk factors. If you aren’t getting enough sleep or exercise, if you never have privacy, or if you aren’t making your relationship a priority, your sex drive is going to take a hit. Also, do you drink or smoke too much? If you can’t work these issues out with your partner, a licensed therapist can help.

A Complementary and Alternative Medicine Approach to Sex Drive

Some people find success by taking a complementary approach using herbal supplements. Just be sure you don’t add any supplements, vitamins, or herbs without talking to your physician first, since some can interact with your medication.

Herbal Aphrodisiacs: What to Consider

Herbal aphrodisiacs are the earth’s medicinal gifts to your libido, and you have a cornucopia to choose from. Some may increase your levels of ‘feel good’ brain chemicals, known as neurotransmitters; others stimulate nerves in your genitals, or support your adrenal glands, lifting your libido by helping your stress levels. Many herbs increase your nitric oxide (NO) levels, which increases blood flow to your genitals. Recommended are:

• Chinese ginseng
• Cordyceps
• Damiana
• Gingko biloba
• Maca
• Muira puama

L-arginine can be taken as a supplement or a cream applied directly to genitals. 6,000 milligrams (mg) of L-arginine as a dietary supplement (along with 6 mg of yohimbine) notably increased physical female sexual response. Another showed that more than 70% of women who took the product ArginMax For Women — which contains L-arginine, ginseng, ginkgo biloba, damiana, vitamins, and minerals — experienced increased sexual desire, higher frequency of sex and orgasm, enhanced clitoral sensation, decreased vaginal dryness, and improved overall sexual satisfaction, with no significant side effects.

Source: everydayhealth.com